I’m preparing a workshop on ‘Personal Effectiveness’ for business owners... and amidst all the ‘obvious’ things like organisation, time management and personal ‘systems’, it got me thinking.... what keeps us going as business owners... where do we get our fuel?
For some, the juice comes from ongoing wins – whether it’s getting another client, the rush of a sale or successfully managing a staffing issue. For others, it’s the growth and development of the business (and themselves in that process). Fuelling yourself in this way is great... but what happens if you have a ‘dry’ period of few wins, slowing sales or staff grumblings?
Other people top up their tank knowing they’re ‘in-control’, taking comfort from the knowledge that they are ‘the boss’ – they’re not working to anyone else’s objectives, time-frames or budgets. That’s all well and good... until of course they realise they are actually now slave to their customers, their staff and that ever-present need for revenue.
The most reliable fuel then has to be independent of business conditions. For me I fill my tank with good nutrition (most of the time), physical exercise, spiritual practices and mental stimulation and engagement. If you want help with nutrition or physical exercise, check out one of the many local practitioners who can give you guidance and frameworks that work for your life.
Mentally, consciously choose what you listen to, read and talk about. It is really easy to get into a mental rut if you’re surrounding yourself with commercial news and talkback radio. Instead, seek information that supports your goals and interests. The internet is an amazing source of quality information and blogs in particular are a great way to stay in touch with current information, trends and opinions. If you prefer your information and engagement more personal, consciously select peers, friends and colleagues who will engage you in robust conversation... and make the time to engage.
Mentally engaging yourself – really thinking about, around and into situations, opportunities or problems – not only fills your tank with premium fuel, it helps you evolve.